The person you thought you loved, the one you were sure you'd be with forever...... suddenly seems so different - and so impossible to be with! Change has happened and no one has told you!

Maybe the most challenging part of it is that your partner in this relationship can't even see the change - or doesn't want to discuss the obvious (to you!) differences and conflict that so frustrate you these days.

But - what can you do if your spouse or partner is not willing to come with you to a counselor? Does that mean you need to stop working on your relationship, because you just can't make things change on your own? 

Of course you can choose to decide that, if you have to work at this relationship on your own, then you just don't want to do that! However, if you truly want to save your relationship, there is much that you can do on your own that can produce a major difference in the quality of your relationship.

If you are having difficulty with your relationship, you are feeling overwhelmed or stuck or you are having trouble communicating your feelings to your partner, you may need some help getting past the obstacles to  a better relationship. Please contact me if you'd like more information about my services.