NEED SOME HELP? Sometimes that conversation seems tougher than it needs to be!

Over the years, I’ve had many clients who have difficulty asking for what they need. And our work around that involves more than just finding an understanding of why that happens. Insight is nice – but tends not to quite be … Keep reading…..

HOLIDAY CHALLENGES: Do we really “have to?”

Overheard at the mall: “She’s just gonna do it again! It always happens, so why should I go?” And, the reply: “Because you just have to!” (A conversation between two 30-something women that seemed to be about attending a family event.) … Keep reading…..

FOR MORE EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION…LISTEN MORE THAN YOU TALK! YOUR TURN WILL COME: Many arguments happen when two people talk and neither really hears the other.

Have you ever listened to two or more people doing what I call “parallel arguing?” Each person is so invested in making that all-important point, that no one hears anyone else! I’ve been spending way too much time lately listening … Keep reading…..

FAMILY COMMUNICATION CHALLENGES: Visiting with your family? Try a different approach!

Recently, I’ve been reflecting on family connections – mine and others. Some families really seem to get along well, have a collective sense of humor and mutual understanding, resolve differences eventually, and stay connected across miles and generations. Those are … Keep reading…..